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I love giving advice, I don't give that 2 cents crap "talk to him,you'll feel better". I know better than that, and if that's all I can say in that situation, I keep my mouth shut, cuz i'd rather not answer than give them some crapy advice they'd never use. Im not gonna sugarcoat anything, if the answers harsh then thats whatyou're going to get. If you want to you can IM me, it's down there somewhere!

I have a passion for music, I've been playing Guitar for 4 years, and I'm never going to stop, I know that i'm not going to make it big, but I know I'm going to always have the skill, I love listening to music, my current favorite is Fall out boys new CD, i've listened to them before they became big, and I know all their songs by heart.
Right now, I'm just babysitting because I dont have my working lisence yet, but I'm getting it soon (I hope!) I'm going to Take and Internship with WaMu, and I'm hoping that will be a life time job, so I'll be set for life. I met the love of my life, soon to be 4 years ago, we met online, and I love him with all my heart, atm i'm 15, and hes 20, but i'm 16 soon, and hes already has his bday so yeah ^^. unfotunatly my parents dont know and wont know until.. *Coughs* after the 3rd kid..but yeah, we've been through everything, and I think we have what it takes to make it in this world, hes cheated on me before, had sex with another girl, but I knew they were together, so again, I guess I cant complain to loudly, I told him that he could have a gf if he thought I wasnt enough for him and I guess he took the offer! but I know that if we've made it this far, we have what it takes. Like they say, If you want to know hes rightfully yours, let him go, if he comes back then hes yours forever, and he came back, so i know it'll work.
so yeah, I give advice to kids at school about love life, and I'm mormon, not supposed to be dating until i'm 16, so they think i dont know anything, but if you guys have any questions, again, feel free to just drop me a question or IM me (AIM: AllyBBear MSN: Patronsaintofsquirrels@hotmail.com)



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im 14m and i dont think i'll ever be albe to trust people. you see i've had crushes on girls and i think they like me because they flirt with me but when i ask them out they get all horrified and humiliate me
when ever my friends say a girl likes me and i ask her out the same thing always happens
and somtimes people just lie to me because they think that it's funny or somthing
one time i found a love note from one of my female friends but when i asked her out she didn't know what i was talking about and are friendship was totally over
and onetime this totally hot girl asked my out but i didn't trust her so it didn't work out
somtimes i dont know what to do because i wanna ask a girl out but i wont wanna take the chance of getting embarrised or hurt. and some times i just don't trust them because it's usually a joke.
will i ever learn to trust girls and could someone mabeye give me some advice or help so i can learn to trust people more.
sorry it was so long

Thats pretty rough.

anyway, I"ve seen this before, and its down right wrong. If you have any clue whos pulling these pranks on you, i'd sugguest having a serious talk. anyhow, you're fairly young, and i'm pretty positive you'll get over it. you should just wait a while before asking anybody out, i believe high school relationships are pretty much useless, and they hardly EVER last,I mean, come on. what are high school relationships about? making out between classes and possibly walking her home. it wont last. so i wouldnt really bother. but seriously, if a girl really likes you, she'll actually show intrest in you. theres a diffrence between liking you, like, seeing you in the hall and thinking you're cute. and liking you like, you've known her for a while, and she likes your personality, and thinks you're sweet. but, if a girl is talking to you, and tells you she thinks you're sweet, dont jump in and ask her out, get to know here for a while, see if you like her back and see if she shows intrest in still liking you. i know it's stupid, but its true, 99% of effective relationships, the couple were friends first. you have to make sure you fully trust this one girl, and you've known her, so you know you like her back, before asking her out. If you just walk up to any girl that you friend sugguested, thats kind've desprite.

anyway, I wish you the best of luck, and I hope i helped!

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(Rating: 5) that really helps thanks


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