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Q: This has been confusing me for awhile. People tell me I'm pretty all the time. And when I go to camp or leave my town, the guys all want me. But when I'm home, it seems like they want nothing to do with me. Guys also have said I'm hot and whatever, but why do they not make a move? I'm so confused and so sick of people saying, your pretty and me not getting any guys. Why do you think this is?
i'm sure that you are very pretty and sometimes guys just get intimidated around shy girls, especially these guys from your town, that know you. like when the guys from camps and stuff met you they were like "oh she's pretty, let me go for it" but these guys you know are like "oh she's pretty and i know that she's super sweet.. etc etc" and they just get intimidated. show them that you are not going to reject them. they are afraid of rejection, but they don't know if you are going to reject them or not, so be a flirt. maybe their just tense. loosen them up. haha

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I started this column when I was 15 years old, so you'll notice that the advice has gotten better and better. I've always been interested in counseling and I started this column to gain experience. But, I found a lot more than that. I found a support system of caring and loving people. I received a degree in child development and currently working towards becoming a school psychologist. So, I hope you can feel confident in trusting me with your questions. This is more than just a fun site for me. I look back on my own questions from years ago, and I laugh when I read about my problems at 16. I've really come a long way! I'm relatively young, but I've had several experiences in life that have aided me in helping others. I hope to use those experiences for the greater good and help others who are not in their ideal situation!

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