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Thank you! I appreciate your words and they do help and encourage me. I started here at 12 & now 25. I'm also a Christian. :)

Thank you! I feel stupid for believing. :)

Thank you very much for going out of your way to answer me!

Yes, I did feel as if I was being punished when I placed into the mental institution. I was only there for a few days. The workers yelled at us and made fun of patients. I lied to the doctor and told him that I was fine just so I could get out of the place.

WOW! This has GOT to be a "God Thing"...just had a major txt blowout w my daughter...you have NO IDEA what your reply means to me this very minute! THANK YOU!

Thank you! I just needed to know I wasn't alone. :)

This is a GREAT site! Thanks so much!!!!!!!

Oh okay. That makes sense. Thanks!

ty..that give me a lot of hope :-)

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Once again thank u(: ur advice really is good! And I thank you u really are good at this!! Lol(: I'll imbox u and finish sayin what I'm gonna say haha so you can answer!

U are very welcome and Thank u again I'm so happy to have someone care and want to help like u do(: THANK YOU(:

Thank u very much! U really did help I would like to imbox u so u can help me even more so I can give u some more details If I could rate higher I defiantly would(:

thanks your right. She texted me yesterday and was like you want to hangout, i told her i couldn't because i was busy, she asked me if i was still mad at her and i said yes and she was like k. so yeah i am def. letting go of her since she still acts like she did nothing wrong.

Thanks so much! I find that I binge less when I eat real food and not diet food. I also like the idea of intuitive eating. I will do some research on it :)

Thank you! I hope you get better financially and maybe I can give you some advice too... if you have exhausted all your grants for college (most have some that will at least feed you) then consider dropping enough classes to be able to work a job. I know from my own time that you can't do well in school if you aren't supported. if you have to support yourself, then I guess that is what you have to take care of before any more classes. I had to do it, and you can too. :)

all the answers here gave me the courage to ask my gf and she says it is sexy as hell! thanks for the answer! :)

i have and it came out negative can there be something wrong with me

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OK thanks alot well ok so my friend thinks he likes me but idk anywho tomorrow is his birthday so me and my friend are gonna decorate his locker and we have party hats to so yeah lol we do that all the time for friends birthdays cause were goofy lol but i mean what do you think about decorating his locker and putting HAPPY BITHDAY on one of the chalk boards in one of his classes ???

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thanks it just seems like i'm gettting soo confused with these boys these days!

it was comming all from a direct source, if it wasnt i wouldnt have listened to the person.

oh i never knew that about medium i thought that was a bad thing...thanks :)

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thank you. highschool is getting closer & im getting scared, but you helped make it better.. thanks alot

I've tried that before... It doesn't really work.

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Thanks! I can't wait to try it with the new year!

Thank you.....that was great advice

thank you. that makes a lot of sense.

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Its alright. It did really hurt at first like when he told me the next night after we made out he only liked me as friend.(first night) I dont get it also i dont believe in friends with benafits and i thoght he knew that but guess not. I try to forget about him but the problem we have the same friends so im always around him on weekends and thats when we party and get drunk and every single weekend he gets drunk and comes to me.Hes really not a jerk hes really nice and everything. I dont know whats his problem alot of people who know him say its because hes soo innocent and not confident he only does it underinfluence because nothing matters then. I dont know im soo confused about whats going on and i want to believe he really does like me inside but maybe its just what i want to believe. But about the hurting part it doesnt hurt anymore like first couple times we hooked up on alc. i was sooo upset and stuff now its been going on for month basicly every weekend so i like cant even feel anything i mean it still upsets me but im mostly over it. And i was wondering if i should stop it for the best before one of us majorly gets hurt? btw, i was with him last night once again both of us drunk except i wasnt like really drunk so i can think straight and realize whats going on and i try to understand how hes always like that but i just dont get it. He always holds my hand kisses me on the cheek and does the cutest things but the day after he says he doesnt like me.....

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I started this column when I was 15 years old, so you'll notice that the advice has gotten better and better. I've always been interested in counseling and I started this column to gain experience. But, I found a lot more than that. I found a support system of caring and loving people. I received a degree in child development and currently working towards becoming a school psychologist. So, I hope you can feel confident in trusting me with your questions. This is more than just a fun site for me. I look back on my own questions from years ago, and I laugh when I read about my problems at 16. I've really come a long way! I'm relatively young, but I've had several experiences in life that have aided me in helping others. I hope to use those experiences for the greater good and help others who are not in their ideal situation!

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