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heyyy everyoneee.i am soo sorry but this might be in the wrong catagory i didnt know where else to put it., but im fourteen and a female soo.. i feel a little weird about this;; but i shop wayyyy tooo much! i know all girls claim tro be "shopohaulics" but i am the true definition of the word. you know how some peopel eat icecream or cut them selves when theyr sad?.. well when i am sad i go out and spend money. as a result i spend all the money i make at my job and the money my mom gives me. most of the things i buy are impule buys and end up never being used. its a problem.. soo im looking for advice on how to stop this aditction to shopping and any good ways to spend my time when i am sad so as to keep em from shopping lol thankyou so much for your time!. =)

hailey (link)
hey.
i understand how you feel, i usually turn to food when i'm upset about something.
Its okay to shop to make yourself feel better, if thats what works for you then thats okay. ALl you need to do is learn to limit yourself.
Before leaving your house to go shopping, take some of the money out of your wallet. Tell yourself, "okay, i'm only going to brin $75" or how ever much money you want to bring. Doing this stops you from spending too much money, and it might even force you to buy the stuff you really want/need because if you have extra money you'll buy anything just because you can.
If you just want to not shop as much, maybe you can try to take up different hobbies or plan stuff with friends that does not require you going to the mall.
hope i helped =]


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great advice!! thanks alot!!




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