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Q: I'm in a relationship that's been steady for 2 years and we have a child together. Lately, all I do is just think about my ex (who lives on the same block as me). It's crazy cause my ex and I was dating on and off since I was 14-18. I'm now 21 but I still feel like something was there between us, it just happended too late. I know that he wanted us to be together but his timing was off. I be dreaming about him all the time, even when I spend a night with my man. My ex was really upset when he found out that I had a baby, but sometimes, I be wishing it was his.. I know it's wrong because I love my boyfriend, but you can't really fight feelings....Think I sould ignore them and just 4get about my ex?
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it's normal to still have feelings for someone that was a big part of your life, even when you're with someone else. there's nothing like being in love when you're young, and if you were dating him from 14-18, there's definatley a very special chemistry or a very special feeling because of your age. i can understand what you mean. you love this guy. you obvously do because he is the father your baby. but you're always going to have something special for the other boy. you're going to be 100 years old and you're never going to forget him because there's people in our lives that will always hold a special place in our hearts. and if he was your first love, you never really get over your first love. they are always going to be a very special person in your life. my advice to you is take that to heart. in finding someone new, it is only natural to compare. give it time and think about what i told you. but, if this continues, you will have to do something about it. if the other guy is mad because you guys had a baby, he obviously feels the same way. give this some time, but if it continues, you have the right to be with who you love
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Thank you.....that was great advice
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I started this column when I was 15 years old, so you'll notice that the advice has gotten better and better. I've always been interested in counseling and I started this column to gain experience. But, I found a lot more than that. I found a support system of caring and loving people. I received a degree in child development and currently working towards becoming a school psychologist. So, I hope you can feel confident in trusting me with your questions. This is more than just a fun site for me. I look back on my own questions from years ago, and I laugh when I read about my problems at 16. I've really come a long way! I'm relatively young, but I've had several experiences in life that have aided me in helping others. I hope to use those experiences for the greater good and help others who are not in their ideal situation!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Age: 26 Member Since: February 1, 2006 Answers: 269 Last Update: May 12, 2018 Visitors: 20682
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