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ok...here is how it is...i used to be a happygolucky child then my cousin changed and i acted cool like her but i was so young people thought it was cute...but now i am wearing pink clothes...listening to green day....and hard rock!!!!!! what is wrong with me? and sometimes i want to dye my hair black somtimes i come to my sences and say ..no i would look bad with it...then i turn goth and get moody...then another i am happy sweet loving child..which should i choose..and why am i going through this because i need to make a decision because i am getting new clothes and it would be stupid to be totally opposite..my friends think i am weird because i always have opposite feelings one day and another..goth..prep..punk...prep..punk..goth...it changes...for me i prefer to wear goth clothes but be quiet...but cheeerful i want to have different attitudes ..but then all this mixture is to much...plz..for the sake of pete help me! (link)
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well in my opinion, labels are terrible because when your put into a category of just one type of style, then people expect you to be like that type of style. I don't understand why we can't just be a little mixture of everything, after all, through out our teenage years, we're trying to find who we really are, which is probably just what your doing.
When you go out shopping, don't think of what type of style you want to buy. go into all different stores and pick out clothes that you like and that you think are cute, don't base it on what you want to be.
You can't choose your moods, its just whatever you feel, however you have the ability to control them.
Everyones afraid what others think of them because they don't know who they are yet. I certainly don't know who i am, and i'm sure many other teenagers don't know who they are either, they're just trying to find themselves. So don't worry, you're not the only one who is going through this.
everyone says that you shouldn't care what others think of you, but let's face it, everyone cares what others think in some way or another. We're only human, and we can't be perfect.
Maybe if you have low confidence or self esteem, you could try and build your confidence, that way you might have some sense of who you really are.
All these changes are part of growing up. There's nothing wrong with your feelings, just be you =]
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Thank you so much! I really appreciate it! :)))))
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