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Q: Hi I am 15 years old and female...

My problem is, as what I had stated on the subject, that I am way too guy crazy, and I am always in a bad mood unless a guy talks to me or I am flirting with one.

I have a boyfriend, which it shouldn't really count because we have been only dating for 2 days and now he doesn't even call me anymore(because said he doesnt have phone so he didnt give me his number because he have to use payphone, so we decided he was doing all the calling) and now he's seeing his ex girlfriend so I know this one's already down the drain.

However, I am always squealing over a guy that I happen to find cute. I know this is typical, but no, I ALWAYS do that to practically every guy I see that is around my age and sometimes that aren't even close to my age.

And I am always in a bad mood and depressed, unless I am talking to a guy or flirting with one. I mean I was hanging out with my friend, shopping for cute clothes, which is thing I really love to do, and I had EVERY RIGHT to be happy, but I was just so sad and couldn't figure out why. Or so that's what I told my friend because I KNEW why I was sad, it was because no boys talked to me that day, and I know my friends get really annoyed when I tell them that because I mention too much.

And I wish I can find a decent enough of a boyfriend who would treat me right and isn't always after sex!

What is wrong with me and what did i do wrong and why am I so guy crazy?

Thank you so much in advance.

I'm not really sure why you have these depressed feelings when you go for quite a while without talking to a guy, but I kind of have a theory for you:

I think that you might be feeling depressed because you mentioned that you wish you could find a decent guy and that's probably what makes you feel sad. You might feel like you'll never find a guy whose interested in more than just the physical attractions in a relationship.

Being very guy crazy is 100% normal for a girl around your age and it's normal that you flirt with a guy and move on because you should probably try your best to keep from settling down because it's not easy to get in a serious relationship young.

I think what you need to do is absolutely relax and cool down from this guy stuff you've got going for you. You said that the boyfriend you have is 'seeing' his ex-girlfriend now or something. If you think he's finding her interesting again, then end things with him. Just take things easy and keep yourself busy when those depressed feelings start to come back at you again. You need to learn that you can't flirt and be flirted with every second.

-TheTeenGirl

Rating: 5

oh thank you so much!~ It really helped a lot!

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