I am a 20 yr old guy, people call me logical and i look at myself the same way. I have been told i give good advice so i thought i would give it a try. I can give advice on pretty much anything, frienship, dating, emotional problems, health problems, pretty much anything. i dont however take any interest in answering questions like what should i buy a green shirt or a blue shirt. serious problems only. I like to help people, its a good feeling when someone likes what you have told them. and that is why i do it.
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I hate my dad..I'm not joking. I honestly do and not just for some stupid reason.
My dad always is threatening my mom with a divorce and stuff she starts crying. I hate seeing her cry when she never even did anything to deserve this. He always is calling her horrible names and cussing at her and me. He hits her sometimes too..she almost called the police. He even hit me once..
I'm so scared of him and so is my mom and my brother. I haven't talked to any of them yet about this. Whenever I hear him yelling or something I'm usually in my room and I start crying because it really is starting to upset me. I can't even TALK to my own dad..whenever he says something to me all the horrible things that he has done to my mom and I in the past just flash back in my mind and I can't speak and I have tears in my eyes. Everytime I hear him screaming at my mom I just want to go down there and tell him to calm down and leave her alone but, I just can't..I'm too scared. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't talk to anyone in my family about this.
How do I help my mom and get my dad to stop yelling all the time? (link)
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Listen unless you want me to come over to your house and knock some sense into your father... If you want to handle this then i would pay attention to what ticks your dad off and dont do it. Find out why your dad is so angry all the time, for example does he hate his job? dont ask him unless he is in a decent mood otherwise i dont think it would be wise, but its like this if you see a nail on the floor you dont step on it go around it. LIke when you asked him where the cough medicine was he yelled well next time spend more time looking and dont ask him. I have to tell you though listening to what he is like i just want to intervene on your behalf and if you lived anywhere near me i would help. Anyway for now you goal here is to survive and not make any problems with your dad if he wants to yell and cuss let him ignore him and if he insists on having your attention then look at the ground in his direction and if he wants you to look at him then look at him avoid doing anything that might set him off. If he is hitting your mom for no reason he needs to be put in jail, i know he is your dad but that doesnt mean he should be allowed to hit your mom or you.And i would give this advice to your mom as well, dont fight back verbally let him yell just so long as he doesnt touch you or your family if he continues when they are fighting call the police and say please come and then hang up they will track the phone number and come but if you do this make sure you are in the same room as your dad and mom leave only for a moment to get a drink or water or whatever because he wont think you called the police if you have been in the same room. And it will be on record with the police about his behavior so the next time they will know who to arrest. good luck
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