13/f
I hate myself. I look at myself in the mirror and just want to fricken cut myself, but I won't cut, thats just how I feel. I hate how I look. People are like your perfect weight, but I feel like I won't ever be pretty unless I have a completely flat stomach and muscular theighs. I just can't seam to accept myself. I've been told I'm pretty and stuff. It's just I see all these other girls with perfect hair and skin and I feel ugly! Then, I see these girls w/ all these hot guys, and it makes me feel like I'll never have that. I'm really sad. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. I don't wanna talk to my parents. I only have one friend who I would talk to but he just tells me to go see a therapist or get antidepressants. I just can't seam to feel happy. So my question is, has any girls or guys gone through this and tell me tips on how to feel better. thanks..
Ahh, I feel like that too! Well, not the cutting part, but chya.
Please don't cut yourself! It will make your skin even worse because of scars and stuff.
Plus, you're 13. You don't need a guy yet. Trust me, you don't.
If people say you're pretty then maybe they feel the way you feel about pretty people. Just take their word for it and don't give it a second thought.
Besides who are you trying to look pretty for? If a person is truly your friend then they won't care how you look, so you shouldn't worry.
Anyway, if you wanna talk on AIM or MSN just go to my advice column and my screen names are there.
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thanks!
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