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Q: okay, here I am, there are some guys, who are kinda my -best-friends... they like me, and I don't know which one to go out with, please, help me pick one:
a) Fred: he's very calm and quiet, not speak a word. He only speaks to me and tells me only about his problems. Very cold hearted, yet nice at the same time. He has been crushing on me since fourth grade.
b) Tao: he's very popular and sensitive, he tells me everything and so do I. He always breaks up with his girlfriends anytime I'm available. He has been crushing on me since sixth grade.
c) Yoh: my ex-boyfriend. we broke up because of misunderstanding and now he wants to get back with me. He is sensitive, understadable, and nice. He's been crushing on me since fifth grade.
d) Leo: one of the nicest person to me. He's romantic and friendly. He's been waiting for me ever since sixth grade. That when he's been crushing me from.
e) Tony: a friend from kindergarten. He's so nice, sensitive, and popular. He's been crushing on me since eigth grade.
f) Richie: my ex-boyfriend in seventh grade. He's smart, intelligent, and super rich. He's been crushing on me since sixth grade.
g) Reid: my ex-boyfriend in sixth grade. He's popular, girls love him and stuffs, and he's athletic. He's been crushing on me since second grade.
They all are confessing love to me!! (They all go to different school, so if I date all of them, there won't be any problems, but I can't do that!!) Help me!!!

Well aren't you lucky?

Fred: This guy sounds like he has a lot of issues going on in his life and can't seem to put it together right now. So I'd probably cross him out because he just might be worried more about himself and how his life is going even when your life isn't going well. He needs a better outlook on life before dating.

Tao: This guy could be a winner. Especially if he tends to end relationships when you are available. So maybe you should keep him open.

Yoh: There's nothing wrong with getting back together with an Ex-boyfriend. But, hopefully you'd both be able to work through that misunderstanding instead of bringing back up the past. I'd say he's alright too.

Leo: Again, he sounds like a winner too. Romantic and friendliness are great qualities. Maybe you should consider this guy over your ex Yoh because you may find things to be more interesting starting with someone new.

Tony: This guy sounds great too. He's had a childhood crush on you and that's like having a soulmate. Who knows, maybe he can really make you happy like he's always wanted too.

Richie: Intellegence is a great quality in a guy. But I hope this wouldn't have to do with him being Rich. Anyway, maybe he's the one.

Reid: Again, it's not bad to get back with your ex-boyfriend. But, maybe if he's popular with the ladies, then maybe you should try a guy whose not as outgoing with his popularity.

I'd say that you should try things with Leo all-together. But what actually matters is that you feel happy with your decision. And don't rush in to make a decision, maybe you need more time to figure out which guy can truly make your day and adores you.

-TheTeenGirl

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Thank you soo much! This helps me a lot!

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