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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap
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I am college student and I have been in a relationship for about 7 months now. However, it seems like longer, he and I lived in the same dorm this past year and we spent a lot of our time together so it feels as though we have been together for almost double that. We figured we would be spending the summer apart since his parents are from half way across the country, but, when he returned home his parents informed him that he would not be returning to school we both went to this year.
We decided to go the route of the long distance. We decided that neither one of us wanted to break up. Yet, I am the type of person who fears commitment and anything seroius and I in a normal situation I have my doubts. There are some days though, where I am okay with the relationship, and where I think that him and I will be fine, he is one of the most loyal people I know. And then there are days like today and yesterday, where he forgets to call before he goes to sleep (like he does everynight) or when we only talk for 15 minutes with in the span of two days, where I doubt this. I doubt how he feels for me and I doubt that this could work. It seems that now more than ever a little insignificant thing such as a missed phone call set me in to a world of doubt. So I am just wondering if anyone has any advice, whether it be that you think I shouln't be in this long distance situation or whether you have advice to get through this. Thank you so much.
ughh long distance relationships are so difficult because every day you want to be wtih them but it seems as if most of the time you can't... =[ but i feel as long it seems you guys both want it to work.. and i strongly believe that it coudl work out.. but i am getting a vibe that is telling you you don't trust him.. and if you don't have trust you don't have anything.. so i think you should talk and make sure it's what you want.. because i think it might be getting to you and upsetting you and your relationship should make you happy. not upset. =] hope i helped need anything else i would be happy to help out =]
(Rating: 5) thanks!