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Q: hi i have a boyfriend named and we were talkin for a while then he asked me out on monday.. we like each other alot and things were going really good. but he has this girl who liked him since 9th grade they are friends though i dont care that there friends but she doesnt like me ever since we started goin out. but she doesnt know me or anything about me. i dont like drama i dont involve myself with it. so shes hating on me and him. i really like him and i want to contiue being wit him but this girl is jus gonna keep starting trouble with me. my sister told me to tell him that if he cant tell the girl to not disrespect me then to break up wit him.
wat should i do

signed: boyfriend troubles
Have your boyfriend talk to her. If she doesn't stop hating on both of you, then he shoulden't talk to her either. But first have him be like "Hey I'm with her now, not you..so leave us alone or I wont talk to you again -- ever". This way she knows if she keeps doing things to make you mad...she'll lose him as a friend...so unless shes stupid, she wont do it again.

If she keeps bothering you guys, then dont talk to her at all. Both of you.

&& If your boyfriend isint willing to give her up as a friend(after the fact that you warned her and she is still not stopping) then maybe
you should re-evaluate your relationship with him!

thanks.. but if i tell him to tell her to stop disrespecting me wont he think that he is fighting my battles or something

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