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I'm a mom of two, who has had her share of problems, and likes to help others with their own. I love helping people, and knowing that I can make a difference. I can't help with everything, but I'll always try to make people smile and just feel good about themselves. I've had more than my share of family drama and problems; what with my parents coming from two different and clashing cultures. I've also moved around a lot and had to deal with changing schools and all the trauma of making new friends and fitting in. I'm good with questions about friends, relationships (love, family..you name it), tough decisions, technology, and other weird random questions.
I'm a great listener, but I make sure to understand both sides of the story as well.

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Well, i have been having it rough lately in life, and i am getting to the point, like now, to where i dont want to be here anymore, as in Yucaipa!
Yucaipa is so fricken gay, and how people are is gay too!
In Yucaipa it is not like most places, because in most places, there are not people that hang out in groups. Everybody almost everywhere else hangs out with everybody. Dont get me wrong, i have a lot of friends and know almost everybody in the school, but there are not many people like me, that like to hang out with everybody.
Also, at my dads house, i kinda live the cinderella story except for, i have a dad, but i dont have a mom! I have two step sisters, but one is cool and one is not! Anyways, i could go on about my household, but i need to get to the poin, because lots of people dont like to read the long ones.
Well, my step mom is literally psychic and she uses it to harm me, and not to help me, and i just barely found this out like a couple weeks ago, and it is scaring me, to the point to where i cried all night long.
My step mom wrewened my whole life basically to. She cheeted with my dad which made my dad cheat on my mom, and then my mom dies, and she talks crap about her. She is such a BITCH!
Anyways, i dont know what to do, because i really want to live with my sister, which i live with on the weekends, but i dont want to hurt my dads feelings, even though i really dont even know him very well, but still was forced in his power, to live with him.
Does anybody have any ideas for me to leave and live with my sister, i hate living there, because the things that i would see my dad do to my mother when i was younger, and my step mom is crazy.
I really need help, please!

I'm really sorry that your having such a hard time with everything. I didnt really understand much of what your saying (maybe you could send me something with a little more detail so I could help you out better), but from what i did understand i really think you should sit and have a talk with your dad and with your sister. Maybe your sister first, to make sure she would be alright with you living with her, and then both of you could go to your dad and talk with him. I don't know if he will agree with allowing you to live with your sister (most dads i kno wouldnt) but you really need to let him know how your feeling. He's your dad and your his daughter, and he will (or should) always put your feelings ahead of anyone elses.

and if u wanna tell me a longer version of the one above then juss let me kno and ill give ya my email address...I really hope things do get better for you.

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(Rating: 5) thank you, and i would love to have your email
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