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Hey everyone! My name is Kristen, I'm 20 and I'm a college junior studying pharmacy. I've been blessed with a really good life, and part of the reason for that is because I've learned to see GOOD in everything that happens to me. I love giving advice, and I've been told that I do a good job at it, but I'll let you decide! Feel free to ask me anything... don't be shy, that's why I'm here. I've been through a lot... moving from one country to another, leaving and finding new friends, break ups, boys, middle school, high school, college, self esteem issues... pretty much most things that people need help with.
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theres this boy that is dating one of my best friend, they have been on and off for awhile and he finally plucked up the courage to ask her out again!!but, me and him were hangin out all day friday and i started to like him!!! now today my friend said that he had been avoding her all weekend. what does it meen or am i just being obsessed?? lol
hey! wow, ok this is deffinitely a bad situation! i don't know if this is what you want to hear or not, but i am going to be honest! i think you need to get out of this whole situation before you start liking him even more, because this will bring you nothing but problems in the future.
first of all, he has dated one of your best friends!! im sure you know the "rule" that you're not supposed to date your friends' exes NO MATTER WHAT! how would you feel if you were in her position and she started liking your bf... and even worse decided to do something about it? she will get mad about this, she will not agree to it, and you may even lose her as a friend over a boy.
second of all, if those 2 keep breaking up and getting back together, their feelings for one another are obviously still there! what are the chances that if they break up now they will get back together again sometime in the future? there's a pretty good chance because it's already happened a couple of times! if you do end up dating him, and he decides in a couple of weeks that he still likes her, your friendship with her will pretty much be over because this will cause way too much drama.
maybe this isn't what you asked for, but if you want to do what's best for you and your frindship, then forget about this boy and find another one. guys come and go, but your best friends are forever... so don't let a guy that could be gone in a few months get in the way of a friendship that could last for years! :)
(Rating: 5) thanx