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17f. Ok heres the deal, i'm sorta talking to this guy and we're getting really close and everything but we're not actually together. We have all the elements of a relationship just without the title. But because we dont have that title we're not technically together and i just wanted to know since we're not together would it be wrong for us to have sex. It hasn't really come up as an issue yet but i don't really wanna get myself in a predicament that i'm not sure of.
hey! well really the decision is up to you! do you think it's wrong? do you feel comfortable with it? the only thing that worries me is the fact that there is no title, but only emotions. this means that you can technically go out with other guys, and he can do the same with other girls. i don't think this will make either one of you happy, but that is the reason why people put titles on their relationships. it shows commitment! if you start having sex, then emotions will become even a bigger part of the whole thing, and one of you will get really hurt if the other starts to date other people! im sure you don't want that, so i suggest putting a title on your relationship or leaving emotions (which includes sex) out of the relationship unless you want to risk one of you getting hurt!
(Rating: 5) thank u that was really good advice