loves2shop86's advice column

Hey everyone! My name is Kristen, I'm 20 and I'm a college junior studying pharmacy. I've been blessed with a really good life, and part of the reason for that is because I've learned to see GOOD in everything that happens to me.

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I'll get to the point. when i was 6 & 11 i was rapped.Im 14 now but whenever im with my boyfriend and were kissing or somthing ill start screaming and hell be all scared that im dieing or somthing...what should i do?

hey!! is this a new boyfriend? if so, then maybe you guys are just taking things a little too fast, considering all that you have gone through. talk to him about it, and tell him what happened. explain to him that you want to take things really slow. once you build your trust for him, and when you feel ready, you will be able to move on and do physical things like kissing with him! but all you can do right now is open up to him and explain to him what happened. if he understands and is supportive, he will be willing to give you as much time as you need! if not, then he just doesn't deserve you and you can go out there and find someone that does, and is willing to give you all the time you need! :)

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(Rating: 5) Thanks so much!you are fantabulistic!!
((weve known eachother for 3 years but have been going out for 1.5 months:-D))

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