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Hi! My name is Rick (Eric is my middle name) Im an average guy who has been lucky enough to raise 5 wonderful children. 4 girls and a boy, and Im proud how they all turned out. I don't know what, but I must have done something right LOL.

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I'm 16/female... Me and My boyfriend have been dating for 2 months, and everything is great and I like him alot but, when we talk on the phone he is always quiet and i'm like if you dont want to talk i will just let you go, and he's always no i'll talk and the continues sitting there quietly... How can I get him to talk or start a conversation that he will talk in, because i like him and all but i'd rather hear him talk than breathe... please help i'll rate high... Thanks in advance... Sorry so long

ALIX (link)
Good question! One thing to remember is that guys for the most part are not phone talkers.
He doesn't want you to "let him go" off the phone as you put it, because he likes you and feels like he's close to you while on the phone.
Guys at that age for the most part, just havent learned communication skills with a woman yet. If you want him to talk Ask questions. Find some of his "hot buttons" Find what his interests are and asq questions about them. Believe me you get a guy talking about his favorite hobby, sport or whatever and you'll have a hard time shutting him up! Then start telling him about your favorite things and get him to ask questions.
If you need more specifics or have any other questions you know where to find me! Id love to hear how things turn out as well.


Rating: 5
Thank You So much... I'm going to try that tonight on the phone and see if it works...




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