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Oh, don't worry, he totally likes you. In fact, he likes you so much that he's going to propose to you (even if you're only thirteen) and you guys are going to get married, and live together happily ever after forever and always and have ten children in the country with the best jobs ever until you die at an old age together in your sleep!

If you know that's not how life works, and you want some real advice, you have my undivided attention. Ask me anything, and I'll try and figure it out for you (unless it has anything to do with geometry).

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my boyfriend told me he has a
crush on another girl,
and i don't know what to do.

he says he loves me and wants to be with me,
and that he just wanted to be honest with me.

but now i feel as though i'm going
to be paranoid all the time.
i dont like feeling like this;
but i can't leave him.

i love him too much..

and today he spent all morning with me,
telling me how he doesnt want this to
interfear with our relationship.

he said it was weighing him down
and that he needed to get it off his chest;
but now that it's off of HIS.
it's not been put onto MINE.


what should i do?

-L



He was honest, which is a good quality... in a friend. Which is why you should keep him... as a friend.

Sometimes, you're just going to have to let him miss you, so he can realize how much he really does love you. And if he doesn't come to the conclusion you obviously want him to... he's missing out, and that's his problem.

It's tough, and it hurts, and I'm sorry (which is why I'm being nice). But I really think you need to break up with him, and maybe try dating someone else? Just to let him know how it feels..

Live the cliche- If you have something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours; if not, it was never really yours at all.

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(Rating: 5) very nice about it. great advice, thanks!
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