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Hi! My name is Rick (Eric is my middle name) Im an average guy who has been lucky enough to raise 5 wonderful children. 4 girls and a boy, and Im proud how they all turned out. I don't know what, but I must have done something right LOL.
My Hobbies are fitness, sailing, Scuba diving, golf and computers. I'm currently a corporate trainer, training managers in motivational skills and love what I do. I feel Advicenators is and excellent place to share experiences and ideas with others. Im looking forward to sharing with you!
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my boyfriend told me he has a
crush on another girl,
and i don't know what to do.
he says he loves me and wants to be with me,
and that he just wanted to be honest with me.
but now i feel as though i'm going
to be paranoid all the time.
i dont like feeling like this;
but i can't leave him.
i love him too much..
and today he spent all morning with me,
telling me how he doesnt want this to
interfear with our relationship.
he said it was weighing him down
and that he needed to get it off his chest;
but now that it's off of HIS.
it's not been put onto MINE.
what should i do?
-L
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When we're young and unsure of a relationship it's hard to hear things like that from someone we care for like you do. However, if a guy told you he never looks at another girl he's pretty much lying.
He's being honest with you and telling you that in spite of this fact he wants to be with you. I would look at the positive side. He sees you as the BEST because in spite of is hormonal desires he chooses to be with you, and is open enough to share his true feelings. Not many guys are mature and secure enough in a relationship to share and trust their partner that much!
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Rating: 5
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amazing advice, super nice about it, thank you!
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