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Oh, don't worry, he totally likes you. In fact, he likes you so much that he's going to propose to you (even if you're only thirteen) and you guys are going to get married, and live together happily ever after forever and always and have ten children in the country with the best jobs ever until you die at an old age together in your sleep!

If you know that's not how life works, and you want some real advice, you have my undivided attention. Ask me anything, and I'll try and figure it out for you (unless it has anything to do with geometry).

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My bf moved to another state for a job. We were still together when he left. He hasnt contacted me in 5 months, and I'm so tired of waiting around for him. I think he's been completely selfish not contacting me. I've finally come to the heartbreaking realization that it's over.
My question is how can I get over him so I can move on with my life? Everyone tells me I'm a pretty girl and can find another bf very easily.
The problem is I would feel really guilty if I started dating someone without letting my bf know. I need some sort of closure, but I have no way of contacting him because he shut off his cell and everytime I email him they get returned. Does anyone have any ideas?

So basically this guy has disappeared off the face off the face of the earth. I hate to say it, but this is your closure.

If you contact him now, what will it do for you? It will be awkward, embarassing, and probably depressing. He let you know it was over when he didn't make some effort to get in contact with you. He's the one who moved. He knows your phone number, your e-mail address... don't waste more time on someone who obviously doesn't care that much about you.

I wouldn't feel guilty about dating again. It's the best thing you can do in a situation like this... it wasn't meant to be with this guy, but there's always more than one out there. Get busy, involved in work or school (if you're in college or highschool or whatever)- do anything and everything to stop thinking about him. You will eventually, but this just moves it along faster.

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(Rating: 5) thankyou so much for you sensitive answer!
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