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Oh, don't worry, he totally likes you. In fact, he likes you so much that he's going to propose to you (even if you're only thirteen) and you guys are going to get married, and live together happily ever after forever and always and have ten children in the country with the best jobs ever until you die at an old age together in your sleep!

If you know that's not how life works, and you want some real advice, you have my undivided attention. Ask me anything, and I'll try and figure it out for you (unless it has anything to do with geometry).

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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we're always messing around but lately we haven't it feels like our realationship isn't the same anymore.i told him i didn't feel like it was the same and he told me he was feeling the same way so he suggested that could be the problem that we haven't been messing around with each other and he thinks we should start again,but i feel that why should we mess around juss so we can feel that spark between us again.shouldn't it juss be like we don't have to do anything like that juss so our relationship could be the same.i don't like the fact that i always have to satisfy him juss so he can be happy with us.i feel like if i don't do it our relationship will not be the same.wat should i do?should i do it or not.he's not pressuring me to do it he was saying that as a suggestion but i don't know i juss need some advice i guess and i will rate a five for juss sum good advice o and i don't mean messing around like having sex with him i haven't done that yet and we love each other alot it's just that we want the love to be on a high level right now. we don't want it on medium i guess u can say but he's like my best friend.i really care about him and i know he feels the same about me.

Physical satisfaction is a big part of a relationship (as horrible as that sounds), but if 'the beginning spark' is all the relationship is built on... it's not going to last. If he needs to mess around and do stuff with you to be happy with the relationship, then it's not love, sorry to inform.

If you, with all of your heart really believe I'm wrong, then talk to him about all of this stuff. If he's your best friend you should be able to tell him anything- including when he's making you feel uncomfortable. Compromise with him- that's what will keep your relationship alive.

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