Okay, about the guy that you like, He is going out with someone. Let him go. He is with someone else, and you can't let your life waste away just waiting for him. No person should put their happiness after anything. Okay, so there is the occasional "have to" but other than that, nope! Don't let this guy take over your life! He went for another girl, obviously you weren't the first choice. He is a jerk that wants you because you are cute or sweet. Don't wait forever. You can wait but not too long, that will tell him that you would do anything just to have him. That way he could take advantage of you and you wouldn't even bat an eye. Don't disrespect yourself, it isn't right!
Now you said that you are shy around boys. Okay, so it might be the other guy, but it also might not. There is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend. Just because you don't doesn't make you a bad person or something. Don't spend too much time on this, okay? If you find a guy cute and he finds you the same, give him a chance. Don't give this other guy a second thought. Turning guys off just because you like another guy just totally beets the purpose. Take a chance, get your heart broken once....it won't kill ya, it might even help ya. I hope that I helped and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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