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Q: My boyfriend and I can rarely hang out because my parents are so strict. I almost never see him outside of school. But he loves me alot and will do practically anything for me. But lately he has been hanging out with this girl, we'll call her Liz. And Liz obviously likes him. Liz has been using me to get closer to him but he swears that he doesn't like her. He always also talks crap about Liz behind her back. but they continue to hang out. But he doesn't want to break up with me.

Since me and him dont hang out alot, is he maybe trying to create a substitute of me that he can hang out with? What do you think?

In a way it sounds like a yes..but I don't think so. If he is talking crap about her I think that it is more like a stalk thing. I think that she might be stalking him...and you said that she might be using you to get to him..there ya go. This is a case of she likes him but he likes someone else. Just talk to him and remind him that it will probably get better, and just to be safe, watch her just in case, just becuase it isn't yet doesn't mean that it won't become that. Don't be nieve, but don't be too suspicious. I hope that I helped, and remember that my ibox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!

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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!