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Q: Okay... I have a boyfriend lets say his name is "Joe". Well me and Joe have been dating foor about 2 months now and meanwhile I have always had a things for my old friend "Bob". I mean I would never cheat on Joe and I care for him more than the world, but yesterday Bob and I were talking and he told me he still had feelings for me and that from up so many feelings I had for him. But I still REALLY like Joe...I know this is confusing but I am so confused and I REALLY need help.
I have been through that like twice. I think that I have found that it is just easyer to stay with the "joe". My "Joe" turned out okay. If you dump Joe and go for "Bob" then you will have to get over Joe (wich is like almost imposible) and then you have to get into being with Bob. Not only that but there is the dumping and the asking out, and then a lot of other things. This way, you stay with Joe and you don't break his heart, but instead of just saying no to Bob, tell him that you are in a relasionship right now, but if he wants to wait that you two could try it if you and Joe breaks up...that is what I should have done...but I made the wrong decision the first time. I did what I just told you not too. It didn't work too well...anyway...I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!

That was really good advice thank you so much i rate a 5!!

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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!

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