I am a 20 yr old guy, people call me logical and i look at myself the same way. I have been told i give good advice so i thought i would give it a try. I can give advice on pretty much anything, frienship, dating, emotional problems, health problems, pretty much anything. i dont however take any interest in answering questions like what should i buy a green shirt or a blue shirt. serious problems only. I like to help people, its a good feeling when someone likes what you have told them. and that is why i do it.
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Last night my boyfriend and I went to a lounge with my friends. Me and my boyfriend came back to my house and told me as soon as we got in that he told my best friend that she's been looking better lately. This kind of upsetted me even though he told me himself. It makes me feel uncomfortable that if he goes out with me and my friends that he'd be checking them out.. which I guess all guys do anyway. But I mean, she is my best friend and all.. I just think that what he said to her should have been kept to himself. Like, I know that if I was hanging with his friends and I told one of them that they looked good that he'd be mad too. Plus, I've always been insecure about myself lately since my depression has gotten a lot worse.. so that might be why the comments he gave her made me upset. I don't know.. but do you guys think I'm overreacting? (link)
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I find it understandable why you got upset, but what you need to do is tell your bf how he made you feel by telling your friend that.By him telling you what he said he either has nothing to hide or is trying to make you jealous or upset only you can decide which it was since you know him personally. Depression is a toxic thing you must focus very hard on doing things that make you happy or even if all it does is put a smile on your face.I would just make the point that it makes you feel negative for him to tell your friend she is looking better. And if he respects how you feel he should be understanding. remember to tell him calmly and sincerely that will make the mood of the situation better.After all you dont want to accuse him of anything you just want for him to understand where you are coming from. hope this helps
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