I am a 20 yr old guy, people call me logical and i look at myself the same way. I have been told i give good advice so i thought i would give it a try. I can give advice on pretty much anything, frienship, dating, emotional problems, health problems, pretty much anything. i dont however take any interest in answering questions like what should i buy a green shirt or a blue shirt. serious problems only. I like to help people, its a good feeling when someone likes what you have told them. and that is why i do it.
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i am basically clue less right now. everyone is against me going otu with my boyfriend. i dont know why but i have been with him for 7 months. that is a long time but i have been putting up with it but for the past week or so my bf has been telling how can you claim somthing that you dont see or touch often.. i noe this is kinds of pothedic but i have only seen my bf like 10 times in 7 months. it is makin me thing about everything my best friend has been telling me about how i should leave him and move on. i LOVE my boyfriend to death. i would do anything for him. he is my best friend and lover. it hurts so much knowing that everyone dis aprroves of us. from family to friends. mostly bc i am whtie and he is black but what hurts more is that i feel like i dont even have his trust. he says it isnt me but it is how mcuh he has been hurt in the past that is why he thinks i do stuff wit other guys there. and lately i have been thinkin about it but never can bc i love him so much. i dont know what to do. and what scary is the other day (4 days ago) someone called his cell but he put the house phone down so i wouldnt hear what it said but idk if it was a girl or guy. and it scarys. what do i do? i am sorry this is long but i need advice bc this is burnin me to hold it all in my heart. (link)
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first lets look at the facts, you have ONLY seen him ten times in the last 7 MONTHS. I find it extremely difficult to believe you LOVE this guy. Take my advice and think about what you are writing, if you really loved him to death why have you only seen him like 10 times in the last 7 months The best thing for you to do is take a break from him and from this subject. You need to think about what your goals are and do what you need to do to make your goals happen. Take up a hobby that makes you feel good, focus more on your life then on this guy. You sound like you are in a unhealthy relationship and the only way to change it is to realize that there is something that is not right.
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