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Q: ok i like these 2 guys. we all hang out together at school. one is a sophomre and one is a senior. i like the senior more than the sophmore. me and the senior flirt constantly. me and the sephmore flirt a lot too just not as much. well i like the senior more, but the senior doesnt want a gf right now. its thats all kool. well the sophmore relizes that i like the senior more and he doesnt want to ask me out bcuz of that, i want to go out wiht him but this is the last semester i will ever see the senior again, and it would just suck if i have a bf, but i like the sophmore. and im just so confused about all of this. i dont no what to do, all my friends so go out with the sophmore. but i really like the senior and it just wont be the same between me and him if i get a bf and that will really suck so much, i just dont no what to do...???help!!!
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Well, you obviously like this senior more, and your sophomore friend knows it. Why are you even thinking about putting him through that? Someone likes you, and he knows you like someone else more, and that at any moment if the senior decided he wanted a girlfriend, you'd drop the sophomore and go for the senior. How do you think that makes him feel. If you date the sophomore it's only going to be really hard for him. I'm sorry to say (and you'll probably give me low ratings, and I'm willing to deal with it, because I'm not here to get good ratings, I'm here to give people perspective) I think you're thinking about yourself, and maybe you should think a little bit more about these two guys, and whether or not your hurting them. Put yourself in the sophomore shoes, how would you feel?
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u kinda misunderstood the whole question, i am thinking about the sophmore guy, thats y i asked this...im thinking about not hurting either of them, bcuz if i go out with one the other one is going to get hurt, so yea. thank neway
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Hey everyone, so it's been a while since the last time I was on here...A LOT has happened w/ my life. But I am back, and I'm here to help as always. So any questions I can help you with, please don't hesitate to ask, I will answer them all as honestly as possible, and if I can't answer something I will tell you that I can't, I will NOT give you false information or lead you on.
Also, and this is something I want everyone to know: No matter what I, or anyone else advices you to do, at the end of the day it should be your decision. We're only here to give you perspective, it's up to you to decide whether or not it is the best thing to do. (That was my little disclaimer :D) Feel free to contact me anytime, day or night.
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