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Q: I am really bad at seperating boyfriends from friends. Is the only difference between having a boyfriend and having guy friends is that you can kiss and hold hands with your boyfriend? I guess I have a problem..cause I treat my boyfriend the same way as my guy friends. Does anybody have an ideas how I can let him know that I really do like him as my boyfriend? Cause I am starting to convince myself that we should just be friends. Thanks.
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Well for the most part having a boyfriend is like having a guy friend that you can kiss, but it goes a little beyond that. Your boyfriend should be the one person you want to spend time with the most, he should give you those little butterflies in your stomach when he's near you, or kisses you. You should want to kiss him, and there should be a little extra romantic side to you with him. Like wanting to be alone with him, maybe cooking for eachother, I don't know, something that you both find romantic, like doing things together that only the two of you know about.
But if what you feel for him is the same feelings you have for your guy friends, then maybe it's not that you're trying to convince yourself that he's just a friend, but maybe that's how it really is. Sometimes people get confused because they associate braking up with having a problem in the relationship, and that's not always the case. You may just have friend feelings for him, but not want to hurt him.
My advice is to think about this long and hard, think about why it was you started dating him, what you felt then, what you feel now, what you would feel if you broke up, and what you would feel if he started dating someone else. You could maybe try doing something romantic together, see what you feel about that too. If you still have only friend feelings for him after all that, then you'll know what you have to do. Good luck!
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you are so right! thank you so much =]
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Hey everyone, so it's been a while since the last time I was on here...A LOT has happened w/ my life. But I am back, and I'm here to help as always. So any questions I can help you with, please don't hesitate to ask, I will answer them all as honestly as possible, and if I can't answer something I will tell you that I can't, I will NOT give you false information or lead you on.
Also, and this is something I want everyone to know: No matter what I, or anyone else advices you to do, at the end of the day it should be your decision. We're only here to give you perspective, it's up to you to decide whether or not it is the best thing to do. (That was my little disclaimer :D) Feel free to contact me anytime, day or night.
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