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Q: im 15f. im falling for my best friend; weve known each other for 4 years; hes 16m
i dont knoe if he feels the same way about me n im to scared to let him no how i feel
lately hes been saying really sexual things 2 me and he wants to have sex with me; i told him maybe but im not sure
we never hang out n person becuas im always busy so we only talk on comp
do you think he just wants 2 be friends with benefits and thats all nothing more? n do you think i shuld jus give in n have sex with him if thats all hes lookin 4?
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Ok first and foremost, never "just" have sex with someone. Whether you're a virgin or not, you shouldn't just give it up because they want it, it's not good for your mental health or your self esteem, plus you always risk of getting a bad rep.
Now, you say you're too scared to tell him, but the truth of the matter is, your going to have to tell him if you want to know how he feels. If it's easier to write an email, do so, maybe try writing a poem. Whatever way you feel least scared, do it, but DO IT. Ask him what he wants out of it, and decide if this is what you want too. You don't want to get in the situation where you're just friends with benefits, but you have feelings for him, and then he gets a girlfriend and cuts things off. That's really messy, then you'll really need advice, lol. So just be honest, and follow your heart, do what's best for you. And remember to keep in mind that you guys are friends, so overall make sure it's clear that no matter what happens you will still be friends.
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Thanks so much. I was a little skeptical about the whole friends w/benefits thing but now i know im soo not gonna do that. Your a good person lol. And ill try writing him a poem.
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Hey everyone, so it's been a while since the last time I was on here...A LOT has happened w/ my life. But I am back, and I'm here to help as always. So any questions I can help you with, please don't hesitate to ask, I will answer them all as honestly as possible, and if I can't answer something I will tell you that I can't, I will NOT give you false information or lead you on.
Also, and this is something I want everyone to know: No matter what I, or anyone else advices you to do, at the end of the day it should be your decision. We're only here to give you perspective, it's up to you to decide whether or not it is the best thing to do. (That was my little disclaimer :D) Feel free to contact me anytime, day or night.
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