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Q: i am 14 years old and guys just don't seem interested in me. i am a tom-boy and just seem like one of the guys to them. i flirt occasionally but don't go overboard with it. all of the boys at my school see me like their "sister" or the "girl next door" i am really good friends with a group of guys but i am afraid friends is all we will ever be. how can i get them to notice me as a girl who has "girlfriend potential" not just as a friend who is a girl? i am crushing really hard on this boy who has a girlfriend. we flirt and talk sometimes and he acts like he likes me but he is staying with his girlfriend. what can i do to get this guy to see me as a potential girlfriend and not just a friend? thanks in advance! i'll rate!
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Well I'll start off by saying that boys your age are really stupid, lol. They're blind, and can't see a good thing when it's in front of them. Now if you want them to notice you, you're going to have to start making them notice you. Dress up nice once in a while...maybe once a week. Put on a dress, or just put some really cute looking jeans on. Do your hair, let them know that you're a girl, and like girl things just as much as you like boy things. That is all you could do really, because I don't think you should change who you are for them, which is why you also shouldn't change you're clothing style, but it's nice to dress up once in a while. Trust me when you're older this is a good thing, guys love girls that can be one of the guys.
Now about this guy thing, keep in mind he has a girlfriend, and I don't think you would want to break them up. But they'll eventually brake up right? lol and so make sure he notices the days you dress up. Keep flirting with him a little, especially when you dress up, and when he breaks up with his girlfriend, move in for the kill ;)
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thanks so much...thats what i was looking to hear!
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Hey everyone, so it's been a while since the last time I was on here...A LOT has happened w/ my life. But I am back, and I'm here to help as always. So any questions I can help you with, please don't hesitate to ask, I will answer them all as honestly as possible, and if I can't answer something I will tell you that I can't, I will NOT give you false information or lead you on.
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