My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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Wow this is a pretty long story and I really don't know where to start. OK I met a guy on an online chat place and we hit it off really well and really liked eachothers personalities. We decided to start talking on the fone and got into the habit of having a daily conversation and became pretty close. He lives in Staten Island and is 18 while I live in N.J. and am 16. Neways we decided to meet @ my house 1 day after school buh my mom somehow got his # and called him and told him that if he ever stepped foot into my hose she would call the police and get him in jail. I got grounded 4 a month because I had lied to my mom about our relationship. A month has passed and during that month we weren't really allowed to talk. Now that that month is over I called him and we are officially dating even though we've never seen eachother which is quite strange. He's really busy with work all the time and he only has 10 minutes in his day to talk 2 me. It's really hard 4 me to live with 10 minutes a day having never met him because i feel like we need to talk more often. I confronted him about my needs and he told me that he's always really busy and he never really has time, which I completly understand. It's really hard 4 me to go through my days not knowing when we're going to meet because we both run on tight ass schedules. I love him a lot and he's the only guy that truly understands how I feel about everything. We plan to meet extremely soon, like in a week or two but I'm just wondering if it'll last?? Long distance relationships are really difficult and what makes it even harder is the fact that he's muslim and i'm jewish. Yea we have a lot of obstacles 2 face but I feel like if we go through them together than we'll be ok in the end. Should I try to get over him? What should I do about the fact that we live so far apart? I really don't know what to do anymore..because I want to be with him but I feel like I can't. What do I do????? Please Help. Thnx in Advance!!! (link)
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I know how you feel i hit it off with a guy like that but it never worked out,unfortunately. But listen to your heart if you truely feel the way you say that you do then you will make it work. Long distance relationships are hard and having two different religions is as well. As much as im sure you dont want to hear this no matter how much you want to be with him your mom isnt going to let you from what i can see. Not only is the age going to be the problem but the different religion may be another but i dont know your mom that well so i cant say for sure. I'd say talk to your close friend and see how you feel after you talk about it chances are you may feel completely different after getting it laid out on the table.
As far as getting over him its going to take time but if you truely feel for him you probably wont. Only thing i can really tell you is to listen to your heart and theres nothing you can do about the distance from eachother. Long distance relationship works but it also brings alot of jealousy and heartbreaks because your constantly worrying if their cheatin on you and all that stuff. Good luck! follow your heart.
p.s im sorry if im not enough help i tried
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Thanks so0o0o much 4 ur advice I'll def. try to sort things out and let you know how it al went. xo
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