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I am a 15 year old female who likes females. I am gay, yes, get over it.

Anyways I have tons of experiance in gay issues as well as medical issues cause i've had my fair share of medical problems. Trust me.

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I'm pretty sure i'm a christian. But i sometimes doubt God and if he's there or not. Does this mean that, if i like... died tomorrow, i would go to hell. Am i not allowed to doubt God? It seems like the only people who are considered religious are the ones like "i'm sure he's real b/c i've read his word and i believed it" but... i'm a very doubtfull person and i can't just believe things like that. Does this mean i'm not going to Heaven?

It is human nature to question God and religion. I believe that you have a right to information on other religions and you SHOULD be able to do research and find something you really believe.

I honestly believe in God. I think there has to be a higher diety that created the world. There's just no other explination.

Okay, onto another subject-- Homosexuality. I am a female whos attracted to females. Does that mean i'll go to Hell? I honestly don't know. But I kjnow its just how I feel and I can't help it. I mean I can choose to act upon it or not, I guess. But why should you have to choose to act upon homosexual feelings?

If you can act on heterosexual feelings and have that be okay, why can't you love someone of the same gender? Why isn't it about LOVE, why is it made to be about gender?

In accepting who I was, I had a huge "I'm going to hell and I hate myself" phase, which i'm not entirely out of. I am questioning weather or not a person really CAN be gay, ect. I just don't know.

How CAN someone know?

You just can not simply know. You have to decide what you truley believe. And I don't think there's anything wrong with believe in something. Untill it gets to the point that you think ONLY your beliefs are correct. That's not good.

I hope I helped, and feel free to contact me individually.

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