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i am 13/f and my parents have been divorced since i was 2...i live with my mom on weekdays and every other weekend i go to my dads house and spend the night...my mom is remarried and my dad has i g/f that i really like...well last friday was my party so i didnt go to my dads on his weekend. on saturday morning i called my dad and he didnt want to come pick me up..when i got there (from my mom) his g/f was over and they had slept together...my dad asked me if i thought he was a bad person... so i have 2 questions-
1. should i tell my mom about her sleeping over there...becasue i dont really want to go to my dads and if my mom hears i wont have to spend the night at my dads.
2. is it mean for me to not want to go to my dads house...the age is 13 when you get to choose if you go or not but i dont know if i should go.
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just think about whether you like being at your dad's or not. also, think how it'll make him feel if you say you don't want to visit him anymore. does he like having you at his house? the incident you descrbed seems quite unpleasant for you, but people make mistakes. he may have preferred to be with his gf rather than pick you up once, but it doesn't mean he doesn't want to have you over. talk to him about how it made you feel before telling your mom about it. it's not mean to be upset about this, but it would be wise to take into consideration your dad's feelings.
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Rating: 5
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Question rated by L2 moderator
good answer yg
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