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Q: so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME!

yes if he did not get inside of you it is still atemt rape and sexual assault but definatly attempted rape and i am 13 so i know it is not that easy to say no and go to peer preasure if you see this guy enough i think it would help if you told someone becasue that is goign to be scary for you if you have to see him adn by telling someone you could stop from future girls being his next victim these things are very serious

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my name is lindsey i am 13 years old i am realy into my music and i like to help ppl mostly in the love life catagory answer every question that i have a reasonable honest good answer that will help. some of my favorit bands are the all american rejects the used my chemical romacne fall out boy simple plan some the killers blink 182 green day. i have a 19 and 16 yr old brothers they are very hard to deal with i have soem girl friends but most of them are guy friends that is when i am most comfortable most of the time. i love to write mostly poetry and i love to dance i am a cheerleader but i am not a prep or anything not tryign to stero type but that is what ppl do to me so yea i am not the stero typical cheerleader im not in it to be peppy i just do it for one thing only i LOVE to dance. im not into rap but i have to be into it a little becasue it is very good dance music if i had to pick a fovorite rap star it would be eminem (sorry bad at spelling) because of the things he raps about real life real situation im not for fakeness the whole all rap about or anything about sex,and drugs personaly i just think that there is alout more to life to enjoy and to pay attention too.