Gender: Female
Location: UK
Occupation: Temp
Age: 26
Member Since: September 3, 2005
Answers: 222
Last Update: March 4, 2008
Visitors: 15336
Favorite Columnists
karenR
orphans
hailebop
ChOcOLoLo
|
| |
Hey there! Currently I'm friends with this guy named "Rainbow", and just recently, I'm beginning to have feelings for him. He was like really nice and we could talk-story, and be comfortable around each other. Everytime during passing from class to class, we would say "hi" to each other, then break into conversation. But the weirdest thing is that now, we no longer say "hi" to each other, nor talk story. It's like we've never met, and all of this changed over the course of one week. I honestly feel that my feelings are becoming really evident, and it's making everything soo awkward between us. But what I am confused about is this: why is he acting weird around me too? i've always recieved mixed signals, but what else can i do to not make the situation more weird for us, but to restore it back to normal?
i am 15/f, and he is 16/m. (link)
|
Hi There,
The best way for you to tell him is to simply be honest. We can't help the way we feel. Find a time when you can be alone with him. It may be best to do this face to face. Sit down and just tell him that you're beginning to like
him. Chances are, he may feel the same way about you.
However, before you break the news to him, you might want to make sure that he'll be ready to accept it. How long have you been friends? Sometimes, if you tell him a little too soon, he may get scared and back down. Make sure you've got a secure friendship in place before you tell
him. Most of all, you must feel comfortable telling him about your feelings toward him. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then it may be better to wait a while.
When you do tell him, like I mentioned above, just be honest about your feelings. Sit down with him and let him now how you feel. Chances are, he may be feeling the same way about you. Isincerely hope that everything will turn out for the best.
Good luck!
|
|
Rating: 5
| |
thank you so much! yes, i beleive that i should wait for our friendship to be more secure before i tell him. Again, thank you so much!
|
|