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On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!
The best way to get on his parents good side is to be yourself, be genuine, and friendly. Try not to be shy, because this makes you seem secretive and shady. If you seem too excited you will seem fake and insincere. You want them to like you, so try and get a little something for his little sister since it is her birthday. When your bf introduces you smile and say something like, "Nice to meet you." Let them be the ones to ask you questions about yourself, that way you won't babble about something you might not want them to know about. And don't act nervous. Just smile, answer their questions, and also ask them questions too, that way they don't feel like their interviewing you or something. You will appear nice, friendly, and they will feel that you generally want to be a part of their son's family. Just don't worry... if their son is dating you, I'm pretty sure his parents will love you! Just be yourself and relax, because their is absolutely nothing to worry about! Good luck! ~Sherah
PS:) If his parents aren't as excited to meet you and aren't as friendly as you expected don't give up. Just keep coming around, so they know that you are going to here for a while. They will warm up eventually. Remember... this is THEIR son and they want nothing but the best for him. So it is obvious that some parents will overprotect their son and question every girl he is with. Everyone's parents are different. Like my mom... she is very intimidating. When she met my bf she acted like it was an interview. My bf was very polite, answered the questions directly, made eye contact, and smiled... things a person would do in an actual interview. But his parents on the other hand... totally the opposite. When they first met me they introduced themselves and then acted like they didn't really care about much more about me. Well I kept coming back so they warmed up to me and now I feel totally at ease around them. It takes time and little effort. So just don't worry. Things will be just fine! :)
(Rating: 5) Yay thanks.. That was along the line of what i was thinking to but i didnt know lol. thaks again