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My real name is Christiana, but most people call me "Nina". I am 18 going on 19. I enjoy helping people--just not when they are still in middle school and asking about love or sex. I do alot of painting on canvas, creative writing, reading, and listening to music. I'm pretty mellow. I love sci fi and fantasy based books and movies. I love medieval history--really I like most history but sometimes I wish I could live in a time period that didn't deal with so many technological complexities. I guess you could say I love the simple things in life...




advice

At what age is it appropiate for a person to have sex? Ss we get older the standerds seem to be dropping. I just read a question by a thirteen-year-old asking if she should get on "the pill" if she has had sex. Since when is that what is on a 13-year-olds mind?

Its not a set age...its when you are ready. When I say ready I mean you don't have any doubts about it in your mind. As soon as you hit puberty your hormones start going crazy. (to answer your question about the thirteen year old) Remember, sex should be about love--you should be involved with someone for awhile before you start.
However, I don't think any thirteen year old is old enough to make that decision.

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(Rating: 4) do you really think that a 13-year-old has enough knowledge to know (and properly weigh) all the thoughts they have about sex in order to make a good judgement on weather or not they are "ready" to have sex?

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