Hi everyone... I've got a Psychology degree so I like to think that i know a bit about how people think and why they do the things they do- maybe i don't know a thing, make up your own minds! Also i work with a youth group of girls aged 10-14 so that helps too! Anyway ask me anything no problem too big or too small and I'll do my best...
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Okay, so I'm in a bit of a weird situation. I haven't been in this situation since ninth grade, and I'm in college.
So my friend likes this guy...and this guy likes me...
Where I am is, I'm TRYING actively not to like this guy because I don't want my friend to get hurt, but he's talking to me and hanging out with me more and more, and I feel like I'm losing my battle.
We started hanging out because he and I have one HECK of a lot in common - like, it's scary. We all went out once and we ordered the same thing...in unison. Lol...
Yeeeeeeah.
So, um. I guess my question is, what do I do? My friend likes him, and he likes me, and I hate to admit it, but I'm starting to kind of like him, too.
I won't tell her I like him because, for one thing, I teased her ENDLESSLY about liking him, and I'd never hear the end of it. For another thing, that would cause such awkward friendship crap...I have, however, kind of half admitted to him that I'm starting to kinda like him...
So help me out, guys! (link)
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It's going to be really hard but friendship is more important than guys at the end of the day. What would end in the most hurt? You not getting with this guy and causing you and him a bit of heartache or you getting with this guy and hurting your friend not only because she can't have the guy she fancies but because her friend has gone behind her back and betrayed her. I can understand that you have feelings for him and no one can help who they fall for thats why this is so difficult! In any case (although it's very easy to say) if you two are meant to be it will happen it really will. Hey, she might decide she doesn't like him anymore and she finds someone else! But for now i really think the only thing you can do is leave things as they are however difficult. Good luck
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