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Hey. I recently recovered from depression with my medication. Still comes back sometimes, but im not really cutting any more. Im 15. If you have questions about anything, hell, ask me. I've been thru depression, I've been a cutter, I go to high school. Shoot.

Anyways, more about me... umm my name is alyx, im female...check out my xanga. Some feedback would be nice, not because i really care about any of this rating crap, but just because i want to know if my advice is being read....and if its helpful...or not. If you dont like advice i give you, dont get pissed off at me please. Im just a juvinile delienquent who cant spell, not god. Im not totally useless either.
My interests are philosophy, photography, writing, theology, and animals. My family is more then a little disfunctanal so i know how that feels. I value honesty. Sometimes Im blunt, but i try to help. Im not shocked easily. I definately dont try to be a perfect daughter, person, or anything else. I dont claim to. my morals are.... flexible. I do what i think is right by me. And sometimes im amazed because that ends up being higher then plenty of peoples.
The world would be a better place if everyone would just stop preaching at each other and do something useful like donate some money to homeless kids. Kids would learn better if teachers cared more about teaching and less about controlling everyone. Lying isn't necessarily always a bad thing. Killing someone nearly always is. Its impossible to draw a distinct line between good and bad, actions are not people, dont be cruel to animals. Think before you stick a loaded gun into your pocket. Dont buy your wife a vaccume for her anniversery. Dont feed cows meat, you'll start an epedemic. Like i said, Im not god. Its just called Common Sense, people.
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OK, well im 14 and still havent had a b/f yet. Is there like smething wrong with mme? Im affraid I wont have a b/f the whole 4 years of highschool. Thanks! (link)
Theres nothing wrong with you, but if you want a boyfriend your probably not giving off the right signals. Do you hang out in a group of all girls? Because i know for a fact its hard to get a boyfriend at all if you dont hang out with any guys... also if you have a certain guy[s] in mind, you have to look interested, not just be interested. You have to be open. Guys look for clues that girls really like them before they ask them out (to minimize chances of rejection). So, if your shy then you probably wont pick up any guys like that! Just be wild, flirty, open, and ultimately yourself. And hey, just for the record, you dont NEED a boyfriend. If your single, and your happy, then just enjoy it. You shouldnt get caught up in the dating as a fad thing, only go out with someone because you are geniunly interested in him...


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hmm thats really good advice, ill take it into concideration! thanks!!




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