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If you were asked to sign a prenup, would you sill want to get married to that person? I always thought that if you go into marriage with the thought of divorce then it will happen. Signing a prenup is kind of like saying "hey, if this doesn't go well then we can just get a divorce and all my money will still be okay."
You have to protect yourself. Even if it's saying right now I love you and I want to spend my life with you, but since I cannot predict the future and I do not know what will happen lets be precautious. It doesn't have to say anything about the strength of love. Today so many things go wrong and instead of working things out people just divorce (bitterly). I personally don't believe in marriage (not saying I never will) if I want to be with someone I will be; and I will stay as long as it's a healthy and enjoyable relationship. If said relationship happens to last the extent of my live time I shall consider myself lucky. If marriage should result and a prenup is offered, I would not take that as a statement of intent to keep what's theirs. I would know that it is just so if a breakup does occur, things will be less messy.
[***Edit*** It is not saying that if we fight we should get a divorce. That is why instead of just divorcing the couple should attempt to work things out. Do you automatically think about breaking up with a boyfriend everytime you squabble? I haven't. Just because it is an option doesn't mean that you should be thinking about it everytime. If you are, then you shouldn't be getting married in the first place. Now the solution is not a prenup (it is for some, especially if they have large amount of personal wealth) the solution is taking marriage seriously. One should not enter it lightly. Some have forgotten about this. People need to be smarter about their desicions, and not always take the easy way out. But for some, not all keep in mind, a prenup is a smart choice. If it is not for you, then that is a talk you must have with your potential life mate later.]
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But, if in your mind you're saying that a divorce is okay and if anything happens between us in the future we can get one, then you will be thinking about getting one everytime you get into a fight. Marriage isn't always perfect but divorce shouldn't be your easy out. And by signing a prenup, you have divorce in mind. When I get married, I want to think that we'd be together for the rest of our lives.
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