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Q: I truely like this kid so much. I've known him for 4 years, and he knows I like him and such. Actually, last year in 7th grade, he asked me out. He was smiling although he said he was serious, but I said no because I figured that he was joking (he's that type of person). Than after he asked me out, he started doing weird stuff to me, and requesting I do things to him. For instance I would usually help him with his French homework, and he would ask that I sit on his lap. He would always hold my hand, try to kiss me, etc. Then he started to get worse, like ask me to have sex with him, flash him, go over to his house and in his room...

This year, he acts as none if it happened. He won't mention the slightest thing to me. That doesn't exactly bother me but it's weird. I still like him and it's not that he acknowlages me (because we're still best friends), but he doesn't like me this year like that.

I just wanted to know if anyone here thought that maybe he took advantage of me. Please help (easy 5's)

well, it sounds like the kind of person that I wouldn't go out with, because he was sending you some uncomfortable signals. But you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Ask him about it, he will prbably not admit it, but it is worth a try. It is never worth just ignoring or something. Make sure that there is no misunderstandings between you two. If you like him, persue it. You aren't getting any younger you know! Take a chance, it will be worth it. I hope I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!

You are completely right about everything, I never really thought about all of that. lol, thanks so much!

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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!

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