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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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im doing the talent show and im gonna dance to Pon De Replay and S(lets name her S, and shes my friend)wanted to join in, so me and my other priend who are in it said yes but she hasnt practicing or anything. So we decided we want her out, so does anyone know a nice way to tell her???
Ill rate 5's for good answers...
not smartasses

Go up to her when she isn't in a bad/sad/etc. mood and when other people aren't around and explain the situation to her calmly.
Ask her why she isn't practicing with you two. Tell her that if she wants to do the dance, then she needs to COMMIT and PRACTICE, and if she doesn't, then she can't be in it. It's not fair if you and your other friend practice and work while "S" is in the group but doesn't practice at all.

Explain all of that to her nicely, and you should be okay.
I hope everything goes okay!

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥ Manders

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(Rating: 4) thanx but i couldnt rate it a 5 because i already tried that and she was like so when do we start practicing she just didnt get it lol but u still give good advice thanx anywayz
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