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Q: alright.. well i have a major problem here.. theres this guy chris ( my ex from a year ago.. hes 20 im 16) well weve gone through some bad times but i always end up forgiving him and going back to him.. hes such a sweet heart and weve been hanging out alot lately and he text me the other night and asked if i thought we could ever try being together again.. but im not sure if i want to ...

then theres nick hes 15 (which age doesnt bother me) we met in summer skool and well he likes me and hes very funny and sweet and he is very good at making me smile.. we always are hugging and flirting in class and everyone tells me he likes me and i like him too!!..and i just feel liek theres something there.

then theres bronson.. hes 17 .. weve been friends for 3 years..and the past couple of weeks weve been talking alot.. texting cute lil messages.. and we were at mikes saturday night and we were cuddling on the couch and we both fell asleep and then we woke up and he was just sayin the cutest things.. then he imed me last night and was liek i didnt want to leave mikes and ur the greatest person to cuddle with and the cutest things ever.. and hes seriously the greatest guy ever..

so my problem is.. what do i do i mean id feel so bad if i chose someone.. so should i wait and see if one of them makes the move first to go to the next level or what!!!and i feel something with all 3 guys..

ahh help please

kristin

wow... this is weird... i had the same situation you are having right now a couple weeks ago.. and my name is kristen... hmm.
well.. what i did... was figure out who i liked more... my ex... or the new guys. i figured... my ex... i know... and i've been through all that numerous times... and that i guess depends... are you looking for something new? cus if you are... forget about ur ex.
now, about this summer school guy issue... im not sure about the whole situation... but if he seems like a cool guy... i mean... get to know him better.
but if i were you, i'd defintaly go for your friend... he knows you, you know him... so its not like you guys will have "any big secrects". friends make a good couple. plus, you guys are only a year apart... and if hes a good friend, he should already know ur friends and parents... so you wont have to go through that either.
hope i helped :) xoxo

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hey, im Kristen... this is my advice column so dont be afraid to ask me ANY question that might be on your mind. im a very understanding person, and i am easy to talk to. i enjoy playing volleyball, street hockey, and i "play" football with the boys... i have my share of problems too, im not perfect, far from it. i just dont have a lot of people to talk to, and i thought it would be nice if i could at least help some people out.