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i really like this guy and i cant tell him.. how should i be able to tell him how i feel without scaring him away? (link)
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Heya,
Firstly body language is always really important. Here's some body language tips to show him you like him:
1) Tilting your head to the right is a sign your interested in what he's saying; tilting your head to the left is a sign your interested in him!
2) Touching/playing with your hair or fiddling with earrings is quite flirty.
3) Touching your neck (necklace) or resting a finger on your lips for a moment are very seductive moves. They will definitely get him interested!
4) Whatever you do, make sure you DON'T fold your arms this is giving him the impression that your protecting yourself and want him to back off.
5) Catch his eyes for a moment, hold his gaze for a few seconds then look away. Keep doing this and he'll be hooked.
Just to get a guys attention one of the most important things is confidence. If you think you look good - he'll think so too! So look up, hold your head high, shoulders down and SMILE! A girl who slouches about with a depressed/angry look will just scare him off.
Also remember guys love it when you just talk to them. Say 'hi' in the corridors, chat about HWK to get the conversation started and look them in the eyes when your chatting. Compliment their hair, clothes, bag etc. Before you know it they'll all be after you!
smile a lot it makes people notice you. Be nice and dont try to show off. Make friends that are guys. Dont try to rush into relationships. Play hard to get IT WORKS
If you think its right then do it but don't walk away, might make him feel like it's a joke, expect an answer. Anyways, just go for it, there is really no harm in trying, nothing to loose but so much to gain! :)
Its good to be honest and open. Granted things don't always turn out that way, but you will never know untill you try.
You could try writing him a letter. Be sure to let him know that you'd like a response to the letter, whether it's face to face or in another letter. Just try to make him understand that even if he doesn't like you the same way that there will be no hard feelings. Cause he might feel. I hope things work out for you.
I think that if that is the plan that you want to do...that is exactly what you should do. I think that it lets him know that you like him, but gives him a little time to think about what it. I think that things will go great and you will feel a lot better after you give him the letter. I really hope the things go well.
Goodluck
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