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I am 15 my bf is 16. I know he doesn't have a lot of money and I was wondering, do you think it is OK if I offer to pay sometimes? I don't want to hurt his feelings or make him mad. Should I ask him about it?

if i were you...this is what i would say/do:
**ex: you guys are out, eating at some diner/restaurant, when the check comes...and he starts to get out his money...**
"no no, cmon, i'll pay this time...you pay for everything all the time and...idk i feel like selfish for not even offering to pay half!..." and maybe add in something like "how about we alternate paying...or just each of us pay half everytime...that way i don't feel bad =]"

hope i helped.

--martha

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