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ok this is gonna be kinda long
In the middle of last year my BFF got a boyfriend and i was soo happy for her. But then she stopped hanging out with me. She ate lunch with him,all she talked about was her boyfriend. But then she got new friends and didnt even notice me. At dance she didnt want to talk to me either. So i told her how i felt and she said thats not true!! So then i said i dont want to be friends if u arent going to be a friend. so then her boyfriend said F*** YOU to me online:(
I told my friends and they informed my ex-bff. So she dumped him and her were friends again. The 2days lata she went back out with him. And she started doing the same thing that she did before. On the last day of school she dumped him. We are friends now but all she ever talks about is her ex-bf and she still doesnt talk to me at dance. Ok so here is my question: Should i still be her friend or forget about her?
thanks and advace (link)
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Well it seems to me that maybe she wants to be the center of attention at dance and be very social.. or maybe (and i hope you don't take offense to this) she feels embarrased around you when you guys are at dance.. and thats why she doesn't talk to you.. but either way.. she doesn't sound like a good friend. And as hard as it may be, i think you should distance yourself from her.. and if she really wants to be your friend.. she'll notice it and say something about it to you.. best friends are always supposed to be there for you and she sounds like she could care less about your feelings.
SHe's obviously not over her ex so you'll just have to talk some sense into her.. tell her that things obviously didn't work out between them and that there will be an even better guy out there for her.
Since it doesnt seem like she gets how you feel about her leaving you out at dance and forgeting about her and not caring about your feelings, then theres nothing you can do to change her mind.. but once she looses you, she'll miss you and regret being so mean to you.
hope i helped
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