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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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i have a friend.. well cousin. anyway, she is OBSESSED with this guy.. she is 14 and he is 17 they had sex.. because she thinks that she loves him.. anyway, she wont get over him.. and he treats her like crap! what should she do?

You have a right to be worried! If he treats her badly and they've had sex, he's (most likely) using her.

Plus, it's dangerous. It may not seem like much of an age difference, but it is. What if he became abusive? That would NOT be good.

Let her know that you're worried about her being with an older guy, and that you think that he treats her badly.

If she doesn't listen to you or yells at you saying "You're just jealous!", then they're isn't much else you can do. She'll just have to learn that herself.

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥ Manders

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