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Oh, don't worry, he totally likes you. In fact, he likes you so much that he's going to propose to you (even if you're only thirteen) and you guys are going to get married, and live together happily ever after forever and always and have ten children in the country with the best jobs ever until you die at an old age together in your sleep!

If you know that's not how life works, and you want some real advice, you have my undivided attention. Ask me anything, and I'll try and figure it out for you (unless it has anything to do with geometry).

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SORRY ITS SO LONG.. BUT I'LL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.

ok so my ex ((james)) broke up with me in April and we had been going out for 4 months.. i really liked him alot.. he was probably the one guy i liked the most.. well i really missed him for a while and i would talk to him online and we'd be friends.. but then he started to become popular and snobby to me... then we were fighting and he called me a slut.. so i blocked him and he's been blocked.. and now its summer and i never see him or talk to him.. but i still have feelings for him.. i mean i don't like him as much as i used to but thinking of him makes me sad and i miss him.. i can't tell if i really still like him.. but i wanna hate him so badly!.. so then i have my other ex boyfriend ((pete)) who i broke up with in novemeber.. and he's still in love with me.. he really likes me a lot.. and he's such a sweet guy with a great personality and he always makes me laugh.. so here's the deal.. whenever i see pete.. i like him.. but then a few days after i see him im like.. well i don't know if i like him.. but he's like the perfect guy for me.. but there's not a big spark.. so my questions are.. do you think i still like my ex james??.. do you think i should give pete another chance and go out with him??.. and what can i do to get over james quicker?? sry its longg

I apologize if you believe anything I say is harsh, but I strive for real answers:

No matter how much you start to miss James, remember he broke up with you for a reason. There's a reason you're all alone right now, and apparently, he found it. He found the reason to break your heart. Sounds like a great guy, doesn't he?

It doesn't matter whether or not you like James. You want to be with a guy who calls you a slut, and breaks your heart and treats you like crap? I didn't think so... get over James and find yourself a new guy who will worship the ground you walk on.

I didn't mean Pete!!

Ok, in my opinion, exes are the worst people you can date. There's a reason the relationships over, and I think, because of that reason, it should STAY over.

If you don't feel any sparks or chemistry with Pete, it's perfectly ok not to date him. No matter how perfect he is, if there's no spark, there's no spark. He may be perfect for some other girl, but apparently not for you. Don't just settle, it's a waste of time, I promise you.

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(Rating: 5) wow that was great advice =] thanks
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