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I love giving advice, I don't give that 2 cents crap "talk to him,you'll feel better". I know better than that, and if that's all I can say in that situation, I keep my mouth shut, cuz i'd rather not answer than give them some crapy advice they'd never use. Im not gonna sugarcoat anything, if the answers harsh then thats whatyou're going to get. If you want to you can IM me, it's down there somewhere!

I have a passion for music, I've been playing Guitar for 4 years, and I'm never going to stop, I know that i'm not going to make it big, but I know I'm going to always have the skill, I love listening to music, my current favorite is Fall out boys new CD, i've listened to them before they became big, and I know all their songs by heart.
Right now, I'm just babysitting because I dont have my working lisence yet, but I'm getting it soon (I hope!) I'm going to Take and Internship with WaMu, and I'm hoping that will be a life time job, so I'll be set for life. I met the love of my life, soon to be 4 years ago, we met online, and I love him with all my heart, atm i'm 15, and hes 20, but i'm 16 soon, and hes already has his bday so yeah ^^. unfotunatly my parents dont know and wont know until.. *Coughs* after the 3rd kid..but yeah, we've been through everything, and I think we have what it takes to make it in this world, hes cheated on me before, had sex with another girl, but I knew they were together, so again, I guess I cant complain to loudly, I told him that he could have a gf if he thought I wasnt enough for him and I guess he took the offer! but I know that if we've made it this far, we have what it takes. Like they say, If you want to know hes rightfully yours, let him go, if he comes back then hes yours forever, and he came back, so i know it'll work.
so yeah, I give advice to kids at school about love life, and I'm mormon, not supposed to be dating until i'm 16, so they think i dont know anything, but if you guys have any questions, again, feel free to just drop me a question or IM me (AIM: AllyBBear MSN: Patronsaintofsquirrels@hotmail.com)



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Location: California
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Age: 14
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ok, its really hard to explain this without going into detail on the last 8 years of my life, but ill try my hardest- 14/m

I have loved this girl my entire life and we have been great friends, and i asked her out and she said yes. Well that was about 7 or 8 months ago, and she turned out to be a SUPER freezer (for those of you who dont know, its a person who doesnt do ANY thing on dates). She wasnt at first and i thought we were goin pretty well, but then all the sudden she said she needs her space and she told me to back off a lil and slow down. and that was about 3 months ago, and then all the sudden i felt like she had broken up with me cause she didnt do ANYTHING. All the sudden i was getting to feel depressed and stuff (it wasnt only cause of her doin that, i had other stuff goin on too, and she wasnt there for me) and the last week ive called her like 6 times and she never called me back. well i swam over the summer, and i had a friend who i kinda liked last year, and so i was hangin with her, well i think i kinda love her now, and i was debating on breaking up with the first girl and goin with the second. Well, that wont work, because all the sudden the first girl is starting to show just enough that she really likes me and prolly loves me back. so now im stuck in a bind because half of me is sayin break up with her and get over her, and then go with the next girl, and half of me says stay with her and give her the chance. but i already told the second girl im breakin up with the first, so now all the sudden im just plain caught in the middle, and i have no idea what to do! please help! i rate high!!!!

look, you need to trust your heart, if needs be, make a list, put only the things down you like about each girl, not what you're supposed to like, but what YOU personally like about them. think the things over and try to figure out which one you'd rather be with. yes it will be rough, but the later you do it the worse it's going to hurt them.

I hope I helped
sorry about your problem
Ally

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(Rating: 5) thanks a ton!


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