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Please note that at this time, I am not accepting questoins. I am having serious doubts about the amount of time and patience that this site requires of me, as well as how I fit into its structure. Becuase of that, I will not be checking advicenators for a while, and thus WILL NOT BE ABLE TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS. Here's my intact profile, however, in case I come back.Welcome to my humble abode... or something.
My name is Brie, but you can just call me Wily (no, that's not my real last name). I'm an eighteen year old from rural Mid-Michigan (think Saginaw or Bay City, only surrounded by miles and miles of trees, corn, and sugar beets).
I'm an honor student, sort of. Not to brag, but I was Salutatorian of my high school class. I specialize in English, educational topics, and social studies, but I'm good with basic sciences and drama too.
I'm a big geek; I like to write and play RPGs, and my favorite video games ever are the Pokemon series. I'm actually a relatively well-known Pokemon master (I've moderated the forums of two bigger Pokemon fansites, and have been an on and off admin at one), and at the two sites where I became relatively popular I aquired the reputation of "The Pokemon Professor." However, that doesn't do me much good here, becuase who is going to ask about Pokemon on an advice site?
I don't have much experience with relationships but I have a natural nack for giving advice about them. I also don't know anything firsthand about things that we do not mention in polite company, but I know a lot about the science and psychology of them, so I'd be glad to answer safety-based questions--just don't ask me about technique, becuase I know nothing. I'll try to answer anything you throw at me, and many things that you don't, though, so feel free to try me.
Be warned though, I'm not afraid to tell it like it is. There are stupid questions, and if yours is one I will respectfully tell you so, and attempt to give you the information you need anyway. If you need to buck up and accept what's happening, I will say so. However, in this column I try to maintain a standard of respect, kindness, and helpfulness; you will not be flamed here. Unless you're a babyeater or something.
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okay well theres this kid name ozzy and i like him as a friend but he likes me as more but i like this other kid that lives like 30 mins away and ozzy keeps asking me out and i told him i was going out with the other kid but even if i like ozzy i wouldny be able to go out with him cause hes dark and my moms racist in a way she just doesnt want me dating dark guys even if i was absolutely in love with them she wouldnt care it makes me mad but ozzy keeps hitting on me and asking me to flash him and stuff like that i have no clue what to do cause i still want to be friends with him you know some1 please help thanks ill rate 5s if its good advice
Well, for a minute, let's forget about your mom. Forget totally. Pretend she's not even in the picture.
Ozzy... doesn't respect you. Any guy that will ask you to flash him doesn't respect you. I suppose there is the rare circumstance where they're just kidding, but I get the feeling that this isn't it.
You cannot date Ozzy. I mean, you can, but it would be bad for both of you. I think you need to tell him that you wouldn't date him if he were the last man on earth and distance yourself from him. Tell him you'd be glad to be friends though. But keep him at an arm's length; boys like that can be dangerous.
As for your mom... well, that sucks. But once you get out in the real world she won't be able to influence who you date. Still, Ozzy is not good for you, no matter what color his skin is. There are a lot of great black and Hispanic guys out there, but Ozzy is clearly not one of them, or at least not a dateable one.
Keep looking, and keep Ozzy at a distance. Still, boys like that can be great friends, as long as you keep them far away enough that they can't pull anything funn. So tell him that you only wanrt to be friends and don't let him get too close, physically or emotionally. You'll be fine. And good luck!
(Rating: 5) thankz for the advice it helped alot